Positivity is hard for everyone..being optimistic is not everyone’s strong pursuit..people tend to enter the tunnel of darkness and have the habit of staying there for longer times..such kind of people tend not to trust people easily, they are unable to expect good out of any situation or they have the tendency to just push away happiness as they cannot handle it. Such people usually radiate a grey aura..It is a combination of white and black, one of which resembles positivity, and the other is negative.
Basically, this shade of an aura indicates that the person radiating it has issues in their life which is causing their life to be a rough ride with a lot of hurdles to cross..although these people emerge to be victorious out of tough situations, they are usually the ones who do not trust easily and thus, opening up to people is very difficult.
Usually, such people have a lot of emotional baggage from the past due to certain possibilities
- Loss of a loved one: People who tend to lose a loved one(death) in very early stages of life, tend to close themselves emotionally as they fear that they might feel that sense of loss again if they open up to someone else. They fear to face the similar consequences again..so, opening up becomes very difficult for them.
- Betrayal: Betrayal is one of the most bitter feelings of all..betrayal can cause a person to switch off their jolly side to someone who cannot trust at all. If a person has faced betrayal from someone whom they considered their own, then the feeling of mistrust creeps its way in. Such people are unable to form permanent relationships or are unable to establish trust in any relation whatsoever as they assume that people might betray them again.
- Abandonment issues: There are many people who are abandoned by people they love..be it friends or family..so, such people refuse to come close to other people as they feel that they might be abandoned by them as well. Gaining trust, friendship or love of such people is a very difficult task.
- Strained childhood: Some people grow up to be unbelievably mature or quiet because of their childhood being not as fun as it should be..such people usually have strict parents or a very controlled environment that leads to them growing up way too early and thus, turning into workaholics or bookworms. Such people lead a monotonous life and are usually physically tired through their routines.
- Physical/Mental abuse: Physical or mental abuse in any phase of life can lead to a person being negative and sceptical all the time. Such a person tends to shut down themselves as they believe that anyone can be their abuser if they draw themselves too close to them. They have a lot of trust issues and are unable to open up to people in their lives..they are not very keen on sharing their feelings and emotions with others.
People with grey auras are very shielded...they are very protective about themselves and fear sharing their doubts, fears and resentments..but these people should not panic as they can worsen their fears and doubts without any reason.